Friday, March 30, 2007

Don’t Hate The Playa…Hate The Game!

Or, DON’T hate the game, because it’s kinda fun!!

The Rules (Directly copied from Sugar Kane cuz I’m lazy like that.): Leave me a comment saying, "Interview me.” I respond by asking you five personal questions (I will leave these questions for you in my comments) so I can get to know you better. If I already know you well, expect the questions may be a little more intimate! You WILL update your journal/bloggy thing/whatever with the answers to the questions (please don't leave your answers in my comments unless you don't have a blog). You will include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the post. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.

So, these are my questions from Ms. Sugar Kane…(Btw, she’s far more creative than I, so don’t be expecting “good” ones like this from me! Cuz I’m lazy like that, remember??)

1. If you could have any super power what would it be and why?
Being a Heroes fan, it’s kind of hard to choose because I see the downside to a lot of “super powers.” I think it would be reading minds, though. I know Matt Parker is kind of a loser and doesn’t use his powers the best (how about some discretion, man? And please work on the faces you make while you’re using your power - if you survive). Or super strength because that would be pretty cool too…or can I just pick Peter, because he can do anything!? I think we’ve established that I’m very indecisive.

2. How did you become involved in the various charities you support and the green movement?
Guilt and loneliness. Not what you’d expect, huh? After what happened with Isabella, I was pretty sure I was paying my dues for some of the rotten things I’d done in my life. The life I’d been planning for almost a year was suddenly gone and I felt very empty. I talked about getting into Walk America before. That just made me realize that I really did have the ways and means of helping other people. I’ve always wanted to help the less fortunate, but before that considered myself in their group. It’s an odd thing - when you lose what’s most important to you - after a while, (if you’re lucky) you realize all the blessings you have in life and become very grateful for them.

3. Which would you choose, fame or immortality?
I’m not so sure I’d want either. I wouldn’t want to be immortal because I’d have to watch everyone I love die. (Geez, this is getting really sad!). I guess I’d pick fame, because that comes with money (usually - I don‘t want to be famous for being a psycho or anything!). I REALLY dislike the paparazzi, though.

4. What has been your biggest challenge in raising children that are 'not yours'.
Connecting with Ninja Boy. Sunshine was still a baby when I met The Man, so she didn’t see anything really weird about having three parents (until she went to daycare anyway). But NB was five. His mom was a SAHM (only because she couldn’t keep a job, but this isn’t about her - though I would LOVE to pin all my problems on her). Anyway, he was so used to having her around and then after a few really rough months and some traumatic experiences, he was living with his dad and, as his mom taught him, “The Amy my dad is sleeping with” (His aunt has the same name and I was pretty much homeless from 17-20). So, he’s had a really tough time connecting with me because for so long he thought of me as trying to replace his mom. I’ve had a really tough time connecting with him because I don’t understand him and his emotions. It creates fights daily, but I still love them both more than I ever could have imagined.

5. What is your dream job?
Don’t go into shock now…but I’d start a non-profit. I’m not exactly sure WHAT it would be for, but I’ve always wanted to win the Powerball so I could. My long-time dream was a secure neighborhood for abused families. But now I’m into the whole “save babies” thing…so…I’ll let you know for sure after that windfall.


Cherann said...

Hmm. Those questions were good. I didn't even realize your kids have a different mother. (I did however think you were kind of young to have kids that age) I went back to your first posts try to figure out if you wrote about it and I couldn't find anything. But it said you had another blog. Is that one discontinued?

Anyway, I'm game. Interview me.

Butrfly4404 said...

First: THANK YOU!!! I know there are a lot of young moms out there, but I still got really po'd when TM and I started dating (i was 19) and everyone thought the kids were mine.

Also, I guess I never did come right out and say it, but I make comments about it more at other people's blogs, I guess.

I read your WHOLE blog today, cherann (and sent you a friend request on myspace)! (Now it's 12:30 and I need to shower - OF COURSE I HAVE A LIFE...It's just not very exciting!)

Here are the questions I came up with for you:
1) Did you ever find a church you liked?
2) If you had round trip tickets to anywhere in the world, where would you go and who would you take with you?
3) If you had to give up one thing, which would you pick?
A- Books
B- iPod
4) Do you ever wish you were back to having an office job?
5) What would be the most annoying thing someone could do to you? (I promise not to do it!)

Kelly said...

This sounds fun...interview me.

Sugar Kane said...

Great answers! (by the way, I'm not creative, I just don't mind spending my entire work day coming up with questions!)

Heroes rules! I hate the Nikki/Jessica story line though.

Butrfly4404 said...

OMG, I hate Her/Them, too! I like Jessica more than I like Nikki though...she may be evil, but at least she doesn't just sit there and whimper! (Geez, I miss that show!)

Ahem...Okay, Kelly!

Here are your questions:

1) What is your favorite memory from elementary/grade school?
2) What is your proudest accomplishment? (Excluding children - they're a given.)
3) What is your most USELESS talent?
4) What is the most annoying thing you do?
5) What song will always remind you of your childhood and why?

Kristina said...

No bad questions! ;)

Interview me!

Butrfly4404 said...

Yay!!! I was hoping you'd ask!!!

1) What is the absolute GREATEST thing about Chuck Norris?
2) You have to give something it
A) Internet
B) Coffee
C) Shopping (clothes and shoes)
3) If you won a paid tuition to any college for any degree, what would your choices be?
4) If you were a car, what kind would you be?
5) Describe your dream house.

Brillig said...

Holy Crap! "The Amy my Dad is sleeping with." What a wretched woman! I can't believe she'd teach that to a kid. All in all, she sounds like a real winner...

Your answers were really great to read. I check your blog every single day, and I guess I felt like I was getting to "know" you, but of course I didn't know even a fraction of the things here. Great stuff!

Kelly said...

My interview is up...